Saturday, January 24, 2009
Recently i had been read a book call *Open The Door Of Your Heart*.This book is talking about The Buddhist tales of Happines and the book was written by Ajahn Brahm.There is different topic in every chapter , they show me a way to deal with some kind of situation in a easier way and stay cheerful .
The first few topic i had read was about *Anger* ,*True Love* and the view of *Friendship*.
*Anger*- Anger is not a clever response.Wise people are happy and cheerful all time in every different situation.They will deal with matters they had carefully and make sure they kept clam down all time. So before acting on something ,think wise.
*True Love*-The trouble with romance is that when the fantasy is broken,the disappointment can badly hurt us.In those romantic love,people dont really love their partner,they only love the way their partner make they feel.True love is selfless love,true love is rare.
*Friendship*- For me to deal with friendship, i will keep to myself who can make friend with and who cant. The best way to deal with friendship is to *Forgive and Forget*.I got this word from my friend last few year on his msn nick. Friends are divided into group (1) Hi !Goodbye! friend,(2) Playmate friend and last but no least(3) true friend . I used to have a bunch a friends outside ,we use to mix together and have fun and Some of them had 13 years of frienship .But as we grown up to face the soicety there are some still contact,some hi!good Bye ! and some totally gone.
It time to end ..I will write more about what the book had told when i am done with it
Yuan Ann
24thjan2009
Posted by Yuan Ann at 8:10 AM